http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/ en Fri, 10 Sep 2010 12:43:19 GMT vBulletin 60 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/images/misc/rss.jpg http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/ http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17175&goto=newpost Tue, 07 Sep 2010 22:16:19 GMT Hi I have this beautiful baby with my ex, and I am trying to learn how to move on from her. I loved this girl alot and I still do. We had our child... Hi
I have this beautiful baby with my ex, and I am trying to learn how to move on from her. I loved this girl alot and I still do. We had our child 1 year ago on Sept 5th. While we were the host and hostess of our child's BDay party i got overwhelmed with depression on how much i really want my daughters mother back... But heres the catch, She doesnt want me. I have been hurting for over a year now for she broke up with me one month after our child was born. I have been fighting to win her heart back, and i have gained no ground. She says that we can never even be friends until i stop putting an "I" where it should be my daughter. She is basically saying that im very..... SELFISH. which when its my daughter i am selfish because i only get to see my daughter on friday night for about an hour " due to her bed time" then till about 5pm on saturday, unless its my full weekend. Please help guide me, for i am extreamly lost and i am hurting way to much and im haveing a hard time dealing with this.... ]]> Dealing With Depression Hurting Father http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17175 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17153&goto=newpost Sun, 05 Sep 2010 01:49:25 GMT How is it that a non living thing knows when you start to get a little money saved up? My truck died today. fuel pump stopped pumping. How did it... How is it that a non living thing knows when you start to get a little money saved up?

My truck died today. fuel pump stopped pumping. How did it know that I have some money?

I'm so depressed. I just cann't seam to get ahead.

AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

Dawg

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$200 tow, $250 fuel pump, 2 days off from work, ]]> Dealing With Depression FlyingDevildog http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17153 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17112&goto=newpost Tue, 31 Aug 2010 15:45:36 GMT I was diagnosed with depression anxiety and OCD I started off taking risperdal and luvox and klonipin but, now I am on prozac and risperdal. I don't know if it's just me but risperdal makes me really dizzy sleepy and puts me completely out of my element. What are some good meds you have found to work for you? ]]> Dealing With Depression startingover2010 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17112 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17105&goto=newpost Mon, 30 Aug 2010 20:15:22 GMT My name is Alicia. I am new here. I am becoming a member because as my husband stated today, we are over and I will soon, be a single mother again. I... My name is Alicia. I am new here. I am becoming a member because as my husband stated today, we are over and I will soon, be a single mother again. I had my first daughter at 19 and her dad and I divorced and a few years later and left me to be a single mom to her. I got remarried to a man who now after almost 2 years, decided he is "done". We were both in the wrong so I wont even pretend to say it was all him. [Though he is the only one deciding to give up when I begged to try therapy since we both have some issues from tough upbringings] And while there has been no cheating or anything of THAT sort, its just a rocky relationship. Im scared. To do this again. I am very depressed, distraught and lonely. I remember this feeling all to way. Id just like to know there are others like me and that I am not alone, I suppose. I still love my husband so single parenting isnt the only issue at hand. I have a broken heart as well. He is still living here but Im realizing that may not be best. How do I explain to my daughter who IS his child and his step daughter who is my first child from another marriage? So many things. I have a lot going on in my life right now and I am becoming more and more lost. ]]> Dealing With Depression Lici http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17105 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17090&goto=newpost Sat, 28 Aug 2010 05:12:17 GMT today I have had it.. i dont want to be a mother any more... my older one is peesing on my window because he didnt get his way... my younger one ... today I have had it.. i dont want to be a mother any more... my older one is peesing on my window because he didnt get his way... my younger one wouldnt even give me time to go to the washroom... i cant do this any more its not for me... I love my kids I lovekids but I cant do this my older one still not sleeping at its 10pm and he just really got me angry.. I am done.. i have no one t help and no one to turn to.. really I am left alone to do all this well every one else has a life theres have a life and do what they like and have no resposeabltes and i have everything to worrie and o and never get abrake.. I done and no ne knows I am at the end no one know i cant do this.. no one know Ill end it all... ]]> Dealing With Depression shy12 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17090 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17053&goto=newpost Tue, 24 Aug 2010 18:41:46 GMT Anybody take this? Deleted the post, LSL made a comment that really scared me! Anybody take this?

Deleted the post, LSL made a comment that really scared me! ]]> Dealing With Depression SingleMom123 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17053 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17051&goto=newpost Tue, 24 Aug 2010 14:49:18 GMT I recently rented a home and feel in love with it. It didnt have a few things i wanted in the house but oh well. i just wanted to find a stable place... I recently rented a home and feel in love with it. It didnt have a few things i wanted in the house but oh well. i just wanted to find a stable place for my son to grow up in until i was able to buy a house for us. Well I was kind of skeptical when it came to signing the lease, something was telling dont sign it but at the time the ongoing flooded apartment i was living in lease was about to be up so i felt like i didnt have a choice.

Well fastforwarding to last week, there are these bugs in my house called camelback crickets. i have seen them before and was able to control them for a while but now these things are huge. My father and sister was reading up on these things and found out they are not good to have in the house, once you see one then prepare yourself for lots more. I contacted the landlord but he wasnt available so i left the message with the wife. she stated she will call me back after she finish with another potential tenant. She never called back. I called back hours later and no answer. I literally had to have my sister to call from another phone in order for him to pick up. So she was able to speak to him she was telling him what the issue was and he stated that he dont believe exterminators does not come out to spray for crickets. she told this man that these are not really crickets thats just the name of them. he told her he would call her back. This was Wednesday of last week. He never called back. So i decided to fax and send a letter to him stating the problem, stating that i have a small child who crawls in the fool and is scared that he may come in contact with these things and requesting this issue to be fixed ASAP.

Now today he calls in response to my faxed letter. he says to me well i will get someone to come out and spray but crickets are not a big deal. i told this man these are not crickets they are these bugs that look crickets mixed with a spider. they were here before i moved in and they are getting worse. he said well they are not bugs that lay eggs and stay in the house so its really not an issue. According the exterminator inspector yesterday he stated that these things lay eggs in the ground and stay dormant up to a year and they become unseen because of this. Treatment of the outside, inside and under the house is a must. The landlord tells me well hunny you cant believe everything you hear. but i will get someone to come out and spray. can you have someone at the house around 10. now my mother is at my house waiting and here it is 10:50am. she called the landlord and no answer. so now he has pissed me off even more. I want to terminate my lease but i have to go through lots of boxes to see the clause and terms of termination.

I am becoming so frustated and depressed. My landlord seems like an ass who only cares about himself. I have not been home in 7 days because i dont want my son to come in contact with these things. I dont have any money to pay for an exterminator of my own because they cost around $300. I just dont know what to do or think anymore. :( ]]> Dealing With Depression AamyluvroN http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17051 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17047&goto=newpost Tue, 24 Aug 2010 05:35:11 GMT I could brake down and end it all but what will the end up doing leaving my kids with out a mother.... they all ready have dead beats for fathers and... I could brake down and end it all but what will the end up doing leaving my kids with out a mother.... they all ready have dead beats for fathers and it not like I have any guy even wanting to try so all they have is me.. all they count on is me.. even though I tired even though I want to cry and cry till theres no more pain no more lonlys but I dont today I really think it was the end.. But I cant given tothis pain and lonlyness... I am fighter dont know how to give up failing is not the answer... I need to be strong no matter how hard it is or what is thrown my way.. I will fight for my life, I will fight for my kids, I will be happy , I will love my life with just my kids and me, like I was two months ago... I will find that happy Bev again that every one like and likes to get know.. I will fight with everthng I got... ]]> Dealing With Depression shy12 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17047 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17040&goto=newpost Mon, 23 Aug 2010 06:00:37 GMT Every time I think my family is finally going to do better something happens to end my moment of happiness in a second. I entered an article of... Every time I think my family is finally going to do better something happens to end my moment of happiness in a second. I entered an article of agreement for the home we moved into in November and thought we were finally going to have the American dream, they would have a yard to play in and they would be able to get a dog that they have been asking for for years. Well seems the owner was not paying taxes and now the house is in foreclosure and I'm stuck trying to figure out where we are going to move again! Then to top off everything the engine in my car just blew yesterday so now I have to walk to work 3 miles each way. I don't have the money or the credit to get a new used car so I have no choice. They say God only gives you as much as you can handle, I just wish he didnt trust me so much because I sure can't handle too much more. ]]> Dealing With Depression perd73 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17040 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17020&goto=newpost Sun, 22 Aug 2010 05:33:28 GMT all Ican is cry.. I dont cry but yet I am and it wont stop.. all I want to do is hind were no one can find me... all Ican is cry.. I dont cry but yet I am and it wont stop.. all I want to do is hind were no one can find me... ]]> Dealing With Depression shy12 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17020 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17017&goto=newpost Sun, 22 Aug 2010 04:13:06 GMT I am very strong person very indepented and love to have things I can deal with.. B ut just lately everthings at me.. bills, court,lost a job ,cant... I am very strong person very indepented and love to have things I can deal with.. B ut just lately everthings at me.. bills, court,lost a job ,cant find one , needing to movie, having no one to talk to but my kids witch that not adult talk, I never thought it would be this hard.. I am so sad because I look at my kids and I can see I failing as a mother.. I am trying my best... I have no family no friends witch its life and I am so use to it.. then you think you might have guys intresed in you and wrong there playing mind games because they want sex.. I never said life is easy but when will it just get a little better.. I really at my end here... ]]> Dealing With Depression shy12 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17017 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=16963&goto=newpost Sun, 15 Aug 2010 23:46:48 GMT That is what I have been feeling for weeks now. :( Crying everyday over ridiculous stuff. My daughter left for camp today and will not be back until... That is what I have been feeling for weeks now. :( Crying everyday over ridiculous stuff. My daughter left for camp today and will not be back until Friday. I was happy for her to go and now all I do is worry about her. I was suppose to be traveling to SC this week but it got postponed. I asked my boss if I could work it and she said no I had to take it. So here I sit, wallowing in feeling numb (no emotion) except when I cry. I have nothing to do, no one to do it with and don't want to spend since I need to save it for new job.

You would think I would be excited about the job but in fact I am terrified. My current boss drives me to drink or I would stay where I am, although I don't think there is much room for growth.

I was actually so bored I just scrubbed my kitchen floor on my hands and knees!

Sorry if I seems as though I am beating a dead horse about this subject but nobody around here I feel I can talk to who "gets" it.

Thanks again for listening. That is really what I need. ]]> Dealing With Depression whackedwooly http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=16963 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=16932&goto=newpost Fri, 13 Aug 2010 00:33:51 GMT vent vent vent
today I found out that I'm unemployeed. thanks to the OIG.
management here wanted to keep me and had been telling me not to worry, that I was still be here. The union said that they are working to help me keep my job also, just that it seams to be taking so long for them to do anything.
what makes me mad about the union is that they were given a settlement offer over two days ago, yet I was never told about it. WTF anrt they suppose to be helping with me?

so now Me, no job, losing house, no kids. starting to think why keep trying. what good will hanging on do? for what?

and to think I was in a black mood before all this. it's just got darker.


Dawg ]]> Dealing With Depression FlyingDevildog http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=16932 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=16895&goto=newpost Mon, 09 Aug 2010 21:13:03 GMT Wasn't sure if this would go under Depression or Legal. Can this affect custody at all? ]]> Dealing With Depression averysmom http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=16895 http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=16854&goto=newpost Wed, 04 Aug 2010 05:27:41 GMT I am feeling very depressed at this moment. I'm trying hard not to cry. All these feelings I'm keeping inside is killing me. Sometimes I feel soo guilty... my son doesn't have a father. Was I being selfish in keeping him knowing that he won't have a father. I know he was born for a reason. He just has a purpose in life. I mean I took the morning after pill and that didn't work. He was born at 26 weeks, had heart surgery at 2 weeks. and now he is a healthy 10 month old baby.
I'm also frustrated at the fact that I'm being a single parent. Sacraficing everything... not going out with friends. Not spending any money on me. He has been my number one priorty. And this low life does everything. Living a lie.... having a girlfriend.... I feel soo stupid he has been with her for ten years and I never knew. Sometimes I feel like contacting her and letting her know that he has son and has been ignoring him. But I know that will only cause more drama. ]]> Dealing With Depression doodle http://www.singlefamilyvoices.com/forum/showthread.php?t=16854